Lowering The Gradients Considering The Persona Of The Woman
When we are talking about topics such as "relating to women", or "how to relate to women" or "Can you relate to women?", I usually get asked regarding how to start getting physical with a girl that you have known as a pal for some time.
Getting physical is something that generally occurs naturally between a guy and a girl more than a three month period unless of course either of them is extremely uncomfortable on disinterested.
When a man is not comfortable with approaching a girl for a physical relationship, the main thing that a guy could do to deal with that is discover ways to observe and make use of gradients.
What are gradients? Gradients are just like steps on a ladder which you climb to get to the top. Some guys might try to head to the top level of the ladder without ascending any of the steps. And that makes the girl uneasy as well as the guy.
A man who is not comfortable in this area should learn both how to identify gradients when women make use of them and the way to make use of gradients on girls.
Not every woman will begin at the same gradient. A few women will start with a kiss after a first date, and proceed steadily or swiftly from there - from kissing, to making out, to petting, to heavy petting and ultimately to sexual relations. If a man attempts to jump to the "sexual relations" step without going through the other gradients, he may just lose the girl. Conversely, you can lose a girl as you are moving up the gradients too slowly.
Now other girls won't even be up to the gradient of giving you a goodnight kiss till the seventh date. Gradients for her could be: getting to know you, speaking about sexual topics indirectly (for instance commiserating regarding an ex-boyfriend), accidental touch (bumping into you as you go walking), purposeful little touches to your arm or leg, holding onto your arm while you go walking, holding your hand, and a goodnight kiss.
If you are not comfortable with this area and want to get physical with a girl, flirt with her, romance her, notice where she is on the gradients of sexual contact, then take her up the gradients gently. As long as you don't by pass way too many gradients, if she is interested, she will move up the gradients swiftly or gradually depending on her persona.
If she is not interested, she probably won't budge. Try lowering the gradient and if she still doesn't move up, try speaking about it. Ask her if she is interested in a relationship with you or if she only wants to be friends.
Don't forget that most girls won't go out on a "date" with you unless of course they are already vaguely fine with the idea of getting physical with you. So you might like to make clear if you are dating or just "hanging out."
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